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Spill the (Therapy) Tea
Real talk about mental health, relationships, and growth - written by therapists in San Antonio.
Whether you're curious about therapy, navigating stress, or just want practical tools you can actually use - this is your space to learn, reflect, and feel a little less alone.

Mental Health Insights


Coffee & Coping: Why Your Morning Cup Might Be Doing More Than You Think
At ABC Counseling Inc., we’re not just mental health professionals—we’re humans, too. And like many humans, some of us don’t even pretend to function until the coffee hits. There’s something sacred about that first cup of the day. Whether you’re sipping solo in the quiet of morning or catching up with a friend between clients, coffee can be more than just a caffeine fix. It’s a ritual. A pause. A chance to breathe. If you’re like our dragon friends in the image above (who can

ABC Counseling Inc.
Aug 13, 20253 min read


What Your Therapist Thinks When You Say “This Is Silly”
Ever sat down in therapy, took a deep breath, and said: “This is probably dumb, but…” or “I know this is silly, but…” Let us stop you right there. It’s not silly. It’s not dumb. And it’s definitely not too small to talk about. In fact, when you say those words, your therapist doesn’t judge you—they silently cheer you on. Why? Because what we’re really hearing is: ✨ Courage. 💬 Vulnerability. 🧠 Emotional insight. ❤️ A moment that matters. No Feeling Is Too Small for the Thera

Kelly Clarke, LMFT-S
Aug 11, 20252 min read


Why “I’m Fine” Isn’t Always Fine
Let’s talk about the most suspicious phrase in the English language. You’ve said it. We’ve said it. Your friend said it yesterday with suspiciously red eyes and a tremble in their voice: “I’m fine.” It’s the classic emotional escape hatch, the verbal duct tape we slap over feelings we don’t want to explain, don’t know how to name, or just don’t want to feel. But let’s be real—“I’m fine” is often code for “I’m overwhelmed but trying to hold it together without crumbling into a

ABC Counseling Inc.
Aug 4, 20252 min read


“You’re Going to Suffer… But You’ll Be Happy About It”: What Ron Weasley Accidentally Got Right About Mental Health
At ABC Counseling Inc., we’re big fans of all things quirky, magical, and relatable—and sometimes, the most surprising wisdom comes from the unlikeliest of places. Take for examples, that classic moment in Harry Potter and the Prisoner of Azkaban when Ron squints into Harry’s tea leaves and predicts, “You’re going to suffer… but you’re going to be happy about it”? Now, we’re not saying mental health treatment comes with ominous tea leaves or grim omens (we leave the Divinatio

Kelly Clarke, LMFT-S
Jul 17, 20252 min read
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