đ Spooky Season, Scary Thoughts: How to Handle Mental Monsters đ»
- Kelly Clarke
- Oct 2
- 2 min read
Ghosts arenât the only things haunting us this October.Sometimes itâs not the creaky floorboard or the pumpkin patch scarecrowâitâs that memory of the awkward thing

you said in middle school, the âwhat if everything goes wrong?â spiral at 2 a.m., or the random intrusive thought that barges in like an uninvited zombie.
The truth? Intrusive thoughts are actually normal. Everyoneâs brain coughs up weird, unsettling, or downright cringey thoughts now and then. What makes them feel monstrous isnât the thought itself, but the way we wrestle with it. Stress, anxiety, and exhaustion can turn up the volume until a harmless âbrain gremlinâ starts sounding like a full-blown ghoul.
So how do you unmask these mental monsters?
đžïž 1. Name It, Donât Shame It
When a scary thought pops up, label it for what it is: just a thought, not a prophecy. Try greeting it with, âOh hey, brain gremlin,â and move on. By noticing without judgment, you take away some of its power.
đžïž 2. Ground Yourself
Pull yourself out of the haunted house in your head and back into the present moment.
Try the 5-4-3-2-1 trick:
5 things you can see
4 things you can feel
3 things you can hear
2 things you can smell
1 thing you can taste
Or simply stretch, take a deep breath, or focus on the room around you.
đžïž 3. Write It Down
Sometimes, putting a thought on paper shrinks it from âmonsterâ to âgremlin.â Journaling, jotting it on a sticky note, or even typing it into your phone can help you âclose the bookâ on the scare.
đžïž 4. Call in Backup
You donât need garlic, sage, or a proton pack to fight mental monstersâyou just need tools. And if those thoughts still feel bigger than you can handle alone, therapy can help you find the light switch in the haunted house. With the right support, even the spookiest thought loses its jump-scare effect.
đ» Final Word
This spooky season, remember: the scariest things often live in our minds, not in haunted houses. Intrusive thoughts donât make you broken, weird, or cursed. They just make you human. And with a few grounding toolsâand maybe a little professional backupâyou can keep those mental monsters from running the show.
So light the pumpkins, enjoy the costumes, and remind yourself: you donât need a ghostbuster. You just need support.



